AN EPITAPH FOR A FRIEND, AN OFFICER AND A GENTLEMAN
Being a collection of 60 tributes for
Late Air Commodore, Dr. Benjamin Babalola Okunola
1. FROM: FEMI OLADAPO BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Friendship transcends death. Memories made will never be forgotten. Everyone became a better person for having such a wonderful friend as Babalola.
Saying goodbye isn’t easy for me. We weren’t supposed to say bye-bye. Instead I look forward to seeing BB again each time I am reminded of him through a phrase, a situation, a joke or something that we had in common.
Since we connected again after forty-four years, albeit online, it had been like we never parted. Now we don’t have time to finish catching up. Even when Babalola Okunola has passed away I still feel him encouraging me to be my best self.
Oh! The book project. Babs encouraged me to put my writings in a book. We looked forward to publishing it in 2022. Air Commodore Okunola was to review it. I never knew it was another of your many jokes.
Dr. Okunola had time for me recently when I had a Health Challenge. He was my unpaid Chief Medical Consultant. He called almost daily to know if I was well.
His death is particularly painful to me because we never got to see physically.
Loss of a friendship through death is a cold and cruel companion. I MISS YOU DEAR FRIEND.
2. FROM:ABIOLA LEWIS and BOLA DAVIES BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Air commodore Dr BB Okunola
His Radio Station on Health Talk
He was given the Gift of Time to give a voice to those who were not heard and add a support to the ladder of opportunity to the sick. He strived at all cost to make an impact on the lives of others. He was a man to be adored by friends and colleagues who sent Birthday wishes. Who would think a man of such stature would have time to think about others. We can not know God's plan and for certain how long we have. All we can do is to live our lives as best with Purpose, Love and Joy. BB you did. Beautiful Soul.
May God comfort and grant the whole family the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. Amen.
Good Night. Darling Friend and Brother.
SUN RE O.
3. FROM: ADEOLA (ADERINOLA) ABOLARINWA: BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Babalola, you found it painful to say goodbye to us during the last gathering we met.
You requested for a quick photograph so that you can leave early.
We never knew you were whispering goodbye.
It was not audible at all.
Anyway we have taken solace in the fact that you were for God.
Holy spirit will comfort every one of us especially your immediate family in Jesus mighty name Amen.
4. FROM:NIYI AKANDE BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Air commodore (rtd) Dr Benjamin Babalola Okunola (BB) was a brilliant and gentle school mate (BGSI 73-77 set) who took care of our health as our health prefect during our school days. Few days back you were off the platform and everyone started asking for our “air commodore”. You came on to tell us that you were back, without any premonition that you have come to say goodbye to us. Alas! we have lost a humorous, amiable and brilliant friend in you. now that we need you to take care of our health again as you used to do during our school days, death came calling. We will miss you. May God grant us and your family the fortitude to bear your loss. Sleep well in the bosom of your Lord.
5. FROM DR. MOJI OGUNSOLA: BGSI 73/77 SET
BB, it feels very isolating to come to terms with never being able to chat with you again, especially as this was so painfully sudden.
You’re such an amazingly kind, caring, thoughtful, intelligent and pleasant friend, a confidant, my BAGOSA classmate, military and professional colleague.
I’m not sure what to say as words aren’t enough to describe you and your God-given beautiful attributes.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. BB, rest in the bosom of the Lord Jesus Christ. May God watch over the lovely family you left behind.
We all love you; God loves you best.
Rest in perfect peace, my dear brother.
So we cannot chat again. Eh?!!!
6. FROM: ADEMOLA GBADEBO BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Great is the Lord from whom all blessings flow, may his name be praised for ever more. We thank you Lord for the short but good life you granted Babalola, and how you helped him to impact lives. Though we missed you Babs, we are are comforted with assurance that you are comfortable at your Saviour’s bosom.
7. FROM:ADEBAYO ADEDEJI BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Pictures of the young brilliant Babalola Okunola, the Health Prefect keepscoming back to me. You were so gentle and jovial.
Bablo, as I loved to call you then, you showed traces of what you became when you acted Doctor to the Sports Teams in school.
That you became a successful Medical Practitioner was therefore expexted.
The Surprise was that you also succeeded in getting to the very top of a creer in the Military.
Your Shefa Health Talk is another landmark achievement of yours.
Humanity must surely miss such a resourceful person as you.
Rest in eternal glory.Good night my friend.
Ojelobito, as your mates nicknamed you and the lyrics we had for you those early days, I didn’t forget, ‘ojelobito fogo sile fese gun go kibe ma seje’. Babs, sun re o.
8. FROM:OYEDIRAN OYESORO BAGOSA 73/77 SET
I will always remember and be grateful for the kindness you showed to all members of BAGOSA during your lifetime.
It was truly a privilege to know and learn from such a noble man like you..
Even though your earthly body is no longer with us, we are comforted by the fact that you have now taken your well deserved seat at God's right hand.
Your wonderful legacy will continue through us in BAGOSA and for generations to come.
We will all miss you.
Praying that your spirit Rests in Perfect Peace.
Rest in eternal glory. Good night my friend
9. FROM: HELEN OGUNNIKA BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Hummmmmm.
So sorry and sad !!!
I can remember that gentle soft speaking but funny young man. May His gentle soul Rest In Peace. Amen.
Oluwa a da awa yoku si ni oruko Jesu. Amin
10. FROM:JOSEPHINE IKPEBA BAGOSA 73/77 SET
ADIEU MY BROTHER FRIEND & CLASSMATE
Ur demise is still a shock to me, 77set and BAGOSA as a whole. You were always active on our platform. Our ever humble, quiet and gallant officer I salute you even in death. May ur gentle soul find rest in the Lord's bossom. And those you left behind He will grant them the fortitude to bear this great loss. Good night my Brother till we meet to part no more.
11. FROM:FOLASHADE (ADEYEMO) AKINSANYA BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Heaven’s gain is our loss. Babatunde, we love you so much but God lovesyou more. You were a shining star from our school days to your career in Medicine and the Military. You were a worthy representative of our set. We continue to miss you.
Rest on till we meet to part no more on the resurrection day.
12. FROM: HADJIA BISI (ALAO) MARIAM MAHE-BAYERO BAGOSA 73/77 SET
It saddens me to hear about the sudden death of our beloved brother. What can we say or do. We just need to pray to Allah Almighty to grant him Eternal Life there .Aameen
As it's said that He subhana wata ala gives life and takes it when He wishes and when he wants without seeking any permission.
To all his family I pray that the Lord grant them the peace and strength in going through the loss. And to all class 73/77set, I pray that Allah gives us the strength to bear the loss in good faith and praise the Lord for his live well spent
May His Soul Rest in Peace. Aameen.
13. FROM: NIKE KATIBI: BAGOSA 73/77 SET
So sad, You were one of those that were active on this platform before you suddenly stopped talking until one day when you sent a message that you were given an assignment that kept you away. I pray that God will console your wife and family. Rest in peace until we all meet on the resurrection morning. Odun a jina sira won in Jesus name.
14. FROM: ADELANI ‘SEGUN ADEKOLA BAGOSA 73/77 SET
GOODNIGHT FRIEND AND CLASSMATE
Babalola Okunola, you came, you did your very best and today all of us are applauding your contributions to humanity.
You served God throughout your sojourn in this world.
Brother rest in the bosom of your maker until the resurrection day.
*ADIEU BB*
15. FROM: TOYIN ABIMBOLA JOB: BAGOSA 73/77
It’s so difficult to write about you Babs. The platform brought us together after so many years and looking back it was as if we were seeing each other often when in actual fact I never had chance to see you in person since we left BGSI in 1977.
It demonstrated the power of technology that drew you so close. What a shame that we would not meet in person. You were a gentleman by all definition, easy to relate to with witty sense of humour. Who are we to ask God why.
After so much thinking I console my self that although you were short lived, your life was one full of achievements and significant purpose and that we will continue to cherish.
My dear brother sleep well and may God protect the family you left behind. Amen
Adieu Babalola
16. FROM: KEMI (KALEJAYE) SOWEMIMO: BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Huuum Babalola . BB.
Great loss and choke!
I still can't get over it just like a dream. Unbelievable. May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
My Condolences to all his families.
We love you Babs but God loves you more.
17. FROM: MORENIKE OSUNRINADE (NEE POPOOLA): BADOSA 73/77 SET
Babalola, I was shocked to hear the news of your transition. Saw you last at your retirement thanksgiving after 45 years,but always enjoy your medical tips on the platform. May the Lord grant you eternal rest. May HE comfort your wife, children and the entire family you left behind. Adieu BB, goodnight till we meet at Jesus feet to part no more.
18. FROM: PATIENCE OLANREWAJU WILLIAMS: BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Words can’t express how saddened we all are to hear of the devastating news of your untimely and sudden demise.
Some of us are lucky to have known you BB and the impact you had on so many people. BB was a giant amongst men and will leave a huge hole in many people’s lives and none more so than Bagosa 77 set.
“A great soul serves everyone all the time. A great soul never dies. It brings us together again and again” - Maya Angelou.
BB you might have gone from our sights but never from our hearts.
Today and Always, May Babalola’s loving memories bring us all peace, comfort and strength.
May The Almighty God comfort and strengthen BB’s family during this very sad and difficult time.
We will all be keeping Babalola’s families and friends lifted in our prayers.
May Babalola’s soul Rest In Perfect Peace.
19. FROM: FEMI MUYI OYEYEMI: BAGOSA 73/77 SET
BB, as you are popularly called. This your departure has just opened my eyes to the fact that life is just a phase and death is imminent. You were the medical personal that was guiding us all on health condition tips. Hhhaaaaaaaaaa, iku se'ka. Kilode????
Death comes in as the Lord's designs it, we are powerless.
The last time I spoke with you on phone, you were telling me that you were not okay at all, that you needed rest then.
So, I promised calling back for you to take your needed rest then. Little did I know you were bidding me bye bye.
BB, brother rest in perfect peace, till we meet to part no more! Adieu, our beloved doctor and old school mate.
May the Lord in His infinite mercies console and comfort the wife, children, family at large and everyone of us on this platform, amen.
20. FROM JOHNSON GBOLAHON FAJORIN BAGOSA 73/77 SET
ADIEU MY FRIEND!
The news of your death was sad and shocking! You were so full of life and humour as we relived our school days escapades during your retirement thanksgiving service and reception (March 2019) in Lagos .
God will continue to protect and provide for all you left behind in Jesus name.
Rest in peace my friend. We will all miss you greatly
21. FROM: CHARLES ELUMELU: BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Babalola Okunola, words can't describe my shock at the news of your departure. This is so because I thought we would still see each other again at some reunion event after seeing you on my last visit to your house in Bodija in 1978. Adieu, Bablo!
May God grant you eternal rest in Jesus name.
22. FROM: DR TOYE ONI: BAGOSA 73/77 SET
Babby you told us you were sick BUT you are fine now on the platform. Babby were you using oje for us so that we won't stop you from the glory you have entered into now. We refuse to sorrow as unbelievers for we know you are in a better place. Sleep on brother till the resurrection morning. Miss you
23. FROM: ALICE (IZEKOR): AROWODASA BAGOSA 73/77 SET
With a grateful heart to God Almighty who made you our classmate and the Health Prefect in our set which was a divine contact to your Medical Profession in the Nigerian Armed Forces from where you gloriously retired as Air Commodore.
Hum, we never new a Galant,Gentle, Generous Resourceful Jovial, Kind-hearted, God-fearing and Lovely head of a gloriously blessed family we soon depart this world. God Almighty know why He called you home so soon.
Sun re o Ogagun Benjamin Babalola Okunola. May the Holy Spirit of God Almighty comfort, provide, protect, guide and guard the family you left behind. Adieu my dear brother.
24. FROM: PROFESSOR TUNDE ANDE BAGOSA 73/77 SET
The news of your transition came sudden, a twilight so unbelievable but real! We can not question God, but the instance of your transition raises the quest to ask: WHY YOU, WHY NOW, etc but one quickly subdues the human frailties under GOD's OMNIPOTENCE. To ALMIGHTY GOD we ascribe our being alive or otherwise; GLORY BE TO GOD.
Babalola, I remember with nostalgia our days as students at BGS, Ibadan. We were two of the 'moderates' among the Prefects then, and later encouraging each other (plus Olutoye ONI) through the ever tedious terrain of Medical Training! My dear friend and colleague, you 'are' (so difficult to talk of you in past tense!) a Great man; calm, intelligent, humble, altruistic, reliable and most important; a TRUE CHRISTIAN. We will greatly miss you!
The God you strongly believed and served faithfully throughout your life time will abode you in HIS bosom. HE will care for your wife, children, relatives, and all those who used to look up to you for care and attention. They shall not lack in Jesus Name. For us your mates you have gone ahead off in transition, HE will grant us the grace to remain in the faith, care for others like you did, and unto us give glorious healthy long life to manifest HIS GREATNESS ON EARTH. IT IS WELL IN JESUS NAME.
25. FROM: JULIUS ‘FEMI OLAOSEBIKANBAGOSA 73.77 SET
What a shocking and devastating news to hear about the sudden departure of our amiable brother and secondary school classmate, Air Commodore (Dr) Babalola Okunola (Rtd.)
“There are some who bring a light so great to the world that even after they have gone the light remains." Your good-natured banters, especially with Olori ebi are well spread over the pages of 73/77 BGSI Alumni platform.
I remember I requested that you repost one of your posts about health which was posted earlier and you generously did for many to benefit despite your busy schedules.
Robert Southey, a Poet said, “The loss of a friend is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired.” Friends and classmates, we have lost a limb in losing Air Commodore (Rtd), Dr Babalola Okunola and the anguish and loss are still raw. This is too much to bear, but we take solace in the faithfulness of God and pray that He gives us the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
I pray that our God will comfort his family, and above all, fill the gap created by his sudden departure
26. FROM: ADEOLA (ADEWOLU) OLATEJU: BAGOSA 73/77 SET
It is so painful to say goodbye to you Babalola.
Coming in contact with you as school and classmates gives me the opportunity of learning so many things from you. Humility, sincere love, giving, sacrifices, great understanding, treating women kindly and your love for God cannot be comparable
You going home was a great shock to me because I wasn’t expecting it. Yes you complained about your health but l was thinking it was not serious. Haa BB we all miss you
Awaye ma lo kan ko si. Sleep on beloved brother
May the good lord that allow your home going protect your family both nuclear and extended. Amen.
We love you even in death
27. FROM: SEGUN OLATUNDE: BAGOSA 73.77 SET
Death is inevitable, but for Dr Babalola Okunola, It is too early . God gives and take. May his Soul rest in perfect peace. Sleep on.
28. FROM: RUTH OMAJUWA-OLUWATUSIN BAGOSA 73/77 SET
It's still like a Dream to me. You were such a Jolly Good Fellow.
The moment you are on The Platform with us, it's all JOKES ALL THE WAY.
We love you but God Loves you More. May you continue to Rest in the Bossom of Almighty God, amen.
My Condolences to all your Family.
29. FROM: BABATUNDE ISAYINKA: BGSI 73.77 SET
Air Commodore (Dr.) Babs OKUNOLA has fought a good fight for Nigeria through his services to our Nation and has accomplished his course on earth and kept faith in the race. Adieu!
30. FROM: BOLATITO LAOSEBIKAN SOBANJO: BGSI 73.77 SET
BB, you came, you saw and conquered. You were a blessing to your generation and you left us so early. It's painful but thank God for our hope we will meet at Jesus’ feet where we part no more. Sleep on Beloved. Rest in perfect peace
31. FROM: ABIMBOLA OPADOTUN: BGSI 73/77 SET
With deep regret,I sympathize with the family of our late brother Okunola,who passed on recently.
May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace and may God almighty give the family left behind the fortitude to bear the loss.
32. FROM: FUNMI AGBOOLA BGSI 73/77 SET
Just like a dream you passed away.
Babs as you are fondly called by our mates and Snr. Babs by the juniors. He was friendly and good to all.
You were very discreet and disciplined just to protect everyone from problems. You have made a great impact among us and in Nigeria as a whole.
I worked with him as prefect, he was the health prefect.
You came, you lived, you loved and you conquered.
You fought a good fight but lost the flesh to gain the spirit.
Heaven rejoices with your inclusion, the mortals mourn your exit.
All glory to God for the time spent serving on earth. REST WELL IN HEAVEN.
33. FROM: YOMI FETUGA BGSI 73/77 SET
Babalola was a great man in many ways. He rose to the top in every of his endeavors. He had a Midas touch and a heart of gold. He was a Health Prefect in School. As good as they come.
In the Medical field he became one of the best ENT doctors in the country
His SHEFA Integrative Medical Services held a regular health talk that ministered to the needs of many on Radio within the Military and beyond..
In the Military he flew right to the top.
We will miss your humility and level head. Your jovial mien will be difficult to replace.
We loved you but God loves you more.
Rest In Peace, dear brother.
34. FROM: AKIN POPOOLA BGSI 73/77 SET
When I saw the picture on the BAGOSA DP I thought of something else. I never knew our dear Commodore has departed from us.
Only God knows how he arranges his thing. Whatever its, he will be greatly missed. Adieu friend, brother, colleague a gallant Soldier. You will forever be in our hearts.
35. FROM: ENGINEER PIUS AJULO: BGSI 73/77 SET
Babalola Okunola; I never expected this of you not even d next 20yrs. But it has come and there is nothing anybody can do about it.
You were a real gem, humility personified. Still trying to accept reality of the moment though but our consolation is in our Savior in whom you knew and served to the end. Rest in perfect peace
36. FROM: ELDER (MRS) MABEL OLUBOYEDE, WINNERS' CHAPEL, ONDO ROAD, AKURE.
Pastor Dr Benjamin Okunola. The news of your transition to glory came as big shock. I had thought we would still meet again to let you know how I'm faring in Winners' Chapel. You were my first contact with Winners' Chapel at New Era, Iyana, Lagos. I just stumbled into your fruitfulness class where you were teaching some women who were expecting the fruit of the womb. Though I wasn't expecting the fruit of the womb, I sat down in the class and enjoyed the class. That was one of the things that made me stay. Later I got to know you were Bro Biodun Okunola's (now Pastor Biodun Okunola) brother and that drew us closer and you took me as your sister. (Bro Biodun and I had earlier been in the same fellowship together) You were such a gentle and caring brother! May your great soul rest in perfect peace and may the Lord console your beautiful wife, children, the family, and the Body of Christ. You will be sorely missed by all you touched. Rest on great soldier of Christ.
37. FROM: PASTOR DR. ABIODUN OKUNOLA. FNIAE, MASABE, COREN REGD. LANDMARK UNIVERSITY, OMU ARAN, NIGERIA
Beloved Brother BB, how can I write a tribute so early! Well, you were a loving, wonderful, generous, charming, daring and my only biological brother. You were named BB and I, AA for reasons best known to our parents. As you were the only male you also bear Okanlawon and at my appearance in the family when I came to some recognition I named myself “Ejilawon” as we were the only males sandwiched among females.
Benjamin Babalola, Brother Babs as I was forced to call you by my Seniors during Secondary School days at Baptist Grammar School Ibadan, Burning Babylon at the Polytechnic, Ibadan and in the early part of your University days, Big Brother, Beloved Brother and Best Brother. I am full of gratitude to God that we have an Elder sister Janet Alaba Olayonu (1958 -1996) who knew Jesus early in life (Born Again - S.U. of the ‘70’s) and took every member along with her from being nominal Christians. To the glory of God every member of the family had personal encounter of salvation including our parents.
It has been said by William Shakespeare “Cowards die many times before their death, but a valiant taste death but once” I recalled that you went on ECOMOG operations and God saw you through particularly on a Rakee assignment also God averted what could have resulted in a terrible accidents involving, yourself, an Uncle, a brother-in-law, a Red Cross staff and I coming from Jos after the burial of sister Janet in 1996.
Babby, you took the world by storm and emerged a Hero who touched many lives by living an impactful and an exemplary live to be a great influencer in all spheres of life. Indeed you served humanity with your strength and means. The seed of greatness in you developed to a great stature remembering the quote of Albert Schweitzer “Everybody can be great, because everybody can serve” also you lived a fulfilled life because you sought and found how to serve humanity with cheerfulness. Our father, Late Pa Moses Itanola Okunola (Ekarun Bobajiro of Ibadan) wanted you to proceed to a College of Education and eventually be a teacher at the release of West African School Certificate (WASC), but you went for remedial studies, retook the examination, went to Higher School at Olivet Baptist High School and eventually to the Polytechnic, Ibadan. Your admission to the prestigious University of Ibadan, had hiccup as you were admitted to study Biochemistry but God, your destiny moulder by his intervention brought you to study Medicine. Though gentle, your ruggedness made you to opt for the University Cadet and you joined the Military and you rose to an Air Commodore in the Nigerian Air Force and an Ear Nose and Thorax surgeon.
BB, your contact with Faith Liberation Hour (now Living Faith Church Worldwide) in Kaduna, has brought me out of timid Christianity into audacity of faith that is making me ‘More Than a Conqueror’. Your advice at my visit to Israel was utilized at the Temple mount. I had desired to receive you at our ancestral town Omu-Aran but that is now a mirage. You will take the good news that the remnant soldiers of Christ in the family on this side of Jordan is still holding forth gallantly
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38. FROM: IKEADE SALAMI
Mr Okunola,the memory of your retirement day keep linger in my heart,the good memories people shared about your Christian life,your warmth relationships with your friends and families, that wen I got home I told my husband this is a complete man of God .Despite the military rank, you never allowed it to rule your personal relationship with your family. All the contact I had with you and my big sister (your wife)has been a memorial. I dont easily forget good people,you are one of the good one Nigeria will miss.You spoke on your wife's retirement as if an angel ,when you prayed for her like father to a child.You are a unique father,a role model and your death came as a shock to me even as a family friend this is unbelievable. One thing is sure ,your heaven is real,continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus. Rest in Peace our good brother.
Adieu and Shalom; Akanni Okin omo olomu, olomu aperan, omooloro agogo ----------------. Till we meet in the Resurrection morning to part no more!
39. FROM ABIDEMI ODELEYE
Babalola, my old friend, you lived well. I am grateful to God for the few encounters we had in the recent years. To think of our Bodija days and those holiday bashes. You grew to be a fervent child of God, survived the rigors and politics of life, and got to the zenith of your career as a general. I believe you finished well. Wow!!! Praise God!!!
Only God understands everything. Ummh!!!
After our healthful conversation shortly after your retirement, I wonder why you had to leave so soon. At any rate, I am consoled by the reality that if I stay faithful to our Master Jesus of Nazareth, we will see soon enough.
God our Father will comfort your heartthrob, the children, your siblings and everyone dear to you.
Adieu my dear friend indeed!
40. FROM: BOLANLE OMOMO
My Boss turned brother, my Pastor, thanks so much Sir for mentoring me. You know I eventually quit drinking Coca-Cola, something I thought will be impossible. Thanks so much Sir for prompting me always to bring out my best. However, you left me without notice, so who now will answer my numerous questions? Sleep on Sir till resurrection morning. Adieu Boss
41. FROM: ADEDAYO STONEY ADEGBULU
RIP, Babby. It hurts that you are no longer with us. But I thank God for the exemplary life you lived. We will never forget you.
42. FROM: OLUWOLE DADA
HOW ARE THE MIGHTY FALLEN.
The above caption was the statement made by David when his boss and mentor died. I have just lost a father and a mentor. A brave soldier has fallen. Air Commodore (Dr.) BB Okunola (rtd) has gone to rest. He has fought the good fight, he has finished his course and he has kept the faith, a crown of righteousness is awaiting him to be awarded to him by his maker. The ENT surgeon, teacher, counsellor, leader and administrator has done his part and gone to rest.
Dr. Okunola took me into his house and nurtured me as a son after the demise of my parents. His home was my abode until lately when he retired. He believed in me so much. Many invaluable lessons were learnt from this man. Of note is the fact that he told me close to twenty years ago that I must be writing and expressing my thoughts in various articles and posts evidence of which is seen in my posts today. He taught me how to love and care for one's wife and family.
He was a man of principle. He rose to become a general through his hardwork and prayers. He was commandant of many Airforce hospitals across the country and it was always a story of turnaround. BB went with ECOMOG to Sierra Leone and Liberia and he returned home after a successful trip. I never knew you will go so soon. Uncle Babalola was a teacher with many training manuals developed by himself. The military high command recognized this and made him the pioneer commandant of the Airforce medical school.
Uncle was a man full of life and humour. He will always find a way to make you laugh. He was a man that was interested in the good health of other people. He will tell you to exercise and watch your sugar intake. "Wole, stop taking sugar, it is not good for your health". Those were his words to me. I will miss his words of health. His mark can't be erased. He has made a loud statement with his works and excellent spirit.
A fine gentleman and a man of peace. I was privileged to follow my uncle to play golf on a number of occasions and this led to my love for golf. We used to have morning and evening walks together. He was ever health conscious. Uncle was always filled with words of wisdom and encouragement. Uncle was good to all and sundry. Your death pained me and tears run down my cheeks anytime I reflect on your impact in my life.
Uncle, your impact on me remains indelible. Rest on dearly beloved.
43. FROM: CHUKS OSEMIHA
Oh Death! where is your sting?? ' Oga Okunola' as I fondly call you. Meeting you while I served with the NAF turned out to be a turning point in my path in life. You mentored me among other young officers, taught us how to showcase our skills irrespective of Service extingencies ( as you will say "you will always get recognized by the work of your hands even if its not immediate"). You also placed lots of tasks in our hands. You never even waited to see your mentees excel in their chosen fields. Well, since you have passed the torch to us, we will endeavour to mentor those that come our way irrespective of gender, tribe and aspiration. I am sure that your presence with the Most High God would make Heaven a fun place.
Rest in peace my oga.
44. FROM: NWOSU REJOICE CEO, PRISTINO LAUNDRY, ABUJA.
When I say God gave me a second chance to live, I mean He did it through Air Cmdr B. Benjamin Okunola
When I walked out of an abusive marriage confused, helpless, terrified and numb, daddy held me by the hand and pulled me up. In his words "what matters to me is that you stay alive"
Prior to that time, I couldn't bare my heart completely to any member of my family because at that time we were bereaved and mourning the exit of my sister who died of cancer leaving behind her children who were really young.
Daddy encouraged and prayed with me. Afterwards he said to me "put everything that has happened behind you. I have no doubt that YOU WILL DEFINITELY MAKE IT AGAIN"
That was all I needed. A voice to remind me of my potentials as my self esteem was already in shatters as a result of years of abuse.
Each time I felt like giving up, I said to myself.Rejoice, you can not afford to disappoint daddy ooo, tohh!
He never judged me. In love, he'd gently point out my mistakes and he'd teach me what I should have done differently.
Daddy kept praying with me, sending me scriptures and motivational stories of survivors and great people. He sent some books which I'll definitely read up.
I met daddy in Kaduna, during my National Youth Service year in 2006.
He picked interest in my spiritual, intellectual, financial and academic growth. He kept tab on the progress I made and we both celebrated our milestones.
Daddy was kind. He's got a discerning spirit. He gives just at the exact time you're in desperate need for help. A great listener with very good memory. If you'd want to enjoy a long lasting relationship with Daddy, you must be truthful and hard-working.
He loved teaching and was in fact, EXTREMELY good at his job (an Ear, Nose and Thorax surgeon) A very disciplined military general, dogged and giant amongst men. He introduced me to playing golf.
Daddy, my encounter with you in the dream the day you were transitioning, shows how dear we both were to each other. All you said to me, your brother confirmed them to be true. The last few days that I learnt of your demise has been the toughest
Thank you for giving me one last chance to be with you and speak to me. Thank you sir.
I'm definitely going to miss you Daddy. Good bye, till we meet to part no more.
My deepest condolences to Mummy and the entire family.
45. FROM: DEBO KAYODE OGUNRANTI
If I were to think out loud, I’d say what makes a brotherhood one of a kind is the way each one remembers the other when they are no longer in the same realm.
Life changes. Radically. But memories? They don’t.
And for that, I am eternally grateful.
I met Babalola Okunola in the summer of 1973 at Bodija Baptist Church. I can't say specifically what got us attracted to each other but we both entwined instantaneously. I was new in the country but we blended perfectly.
We started as neighbours to being classmates at Baptist Grammar School, Ibadan and again briefly at Olivet Baptist High School, Oyo.
Then we parted to pursue our different paths in life. We met again at Winner's Chapel, Lagos from where we did not loose touch again, well, till now. Even at that it this is not final time, yes, we'll meet again at Jesus's feet.
Oh, Bablo, Thank you for being my brother. You were something else—forever leading by example, maintaining dignity, duty and decency: a combination of qualities hard to find in people today.
You made me an honourary member of the great Okunola family and your sisters and brother are mine too. Through our friendship our parents of course became friends too. If I was not at home, my parents knew exactly where I was; your home in Oluokun Street.
You led me to Christ, yes thrice. This is a not a reflection of your grace but of my reticence then. Only a true friend can do that. I salute you.
You were a bit of an introvert. Your one true love was the was evangelism. Stealing the limelight would have put you out of your comfort zone. But you still managed to be an outstanding, action-packed preacher, youth leader and man of God. As if this wasn’t angelic enough, during times of victory you would give the credit only God.
I can write a book on your professional accomplishments as a humanitarian doctor and a bit about you as a gentleman soldier from what we gathered from your military colleagues at your retirement celebrations
I do realize nothing in life is a coincidence; or so I choose to believe. But would it be too much to ask, if for once, I could think otherwise? Only because it’d make grieving that much easier. I could be wrong; but how am I supposed to know for sure since you’re not here?
I have questions unanswered.
Uncemented bricks you gave me to build our story.
With held tears begging for one more day in your company.
In that great a-gettin' up morning, Fair thee well, fair thee well.
In that great a-gettin' up morning, Fair thee well, fair thee well.
My Brother.
46. FROM: PST. KAYODE OLUTOKI FAITH HOUSE INTERNATIONAL, CALABAR, NIGERIA.
Ooooooooh
This is grief.....
My youth Pastor.....
Sound with love and kindness,firm and yet jovial.....
I celebrate the grace of God upon your life. Your word of knowledge established me in Winners Chapel.....
I can never forget you Sir.
May God keep your family and give comfort....
Sleep on great and gallant soldier of Christ....
Goodnight my Pastor.
47. FROM CHIEF MRS. BEATRICE OKUNOLA
There's a time and season for everything in life.
Ecc.3:2a says, A time to be born, and a time to die.
It's been Gods involvement since the beginning to the demise of my beloved brother in-law blessed be the name of the Lord.
Who are we to question our Almighty Father for taking him to eternity? Though we love him but God Love's him more than us.
According to a Bible passage in yoruba, "a mu olododo lo, saaju ojo ibi". God gaveth and taketh, Glory to God Almighty.
Adieu, Pastor Benjamin Babalola OKUNOLA, good night.
48. FROM PST. MRS. DUNNI ADELEYE,
Pastor Babby was so dear to me in many ways right from the days of U I to Winners and even outside winners. I definitely will miss that smiley face and words of wisdom that had always flowed from him.
My prayer for the family left behind is that the Holy Spirit will console everyone of you in Jesus name
Adieu my personal man.
49. FROM: PASTOR ADENIYI ONITIRI, ROYAL PRIESTHOOD MINISTRY, ASABA, NIGERIA.
It is well my dear brother and friend. I will miss your calmness in all situations and your coolness in handling any assignment on the altar.
Your calmness endeared you to God's servants heart, Papa David Oyedepo that he wanted you to join full time ministry. But you were very certain of your vision and assignment in the body of Christ.
The last time we saw was during the burial of my sister, Dcns Ojeme, we drove home together and you promised to visit me in Asaba. You never did.
Adieu brother, I miss you so much. Until we meet to part no more. Please rest in the bosom of the Almighty.
50. FROM: TUNDE OBADINA
He wld be greatly missed!..
May D Lord grant him eternal rest.. Amen.
My condolences to the entire family.
51. FROM: KEHINDE BARNES
We thank God for your life Babalola it’s not how long we live but how well you lived a fulfilled life that is worthy of emulation. We grew up in the same neighborhood ( old Bodija Estate ) and the same church ( Bodija Estate Baptist Church)we also attended the same school ( Baptist grammar school ( BGSI). Our late parents were friends and colleagues. When I heard about your demise I was shocked we have not even gotten over your cousin’s demise Dr Doyin Ojo née Babatunde but who are we to query God . I have known you to be a gentle man, may your soul rest in perfect peace, the Bible says the deaths of his saints are precious in his sight.
52. FROM: ELIZABETH OYENUSI
It is really shocking to be writing about Air Commodore Okunola in the past tense. Oga Sir, you impacted so many lives. Right from when we were medical students under you in Lagos University Teaching Hospital, you have always been a teacher and a mentor.
You were also a spiritual mentor to my husband and myself right from the early months of our marriage. Whenever we met, you wanted to know about my progress and that of my family.
You passed down a book that had helped you in research to ensure that my final dissertation in my own residency program was a success.
You were exemplary in your service to the Lord. You contributed your quota to improve medical services in the Nigerian AirForce wherever you served. We take solace in the great legacy you left and the knowledge that you are in a better place in the Lord’s bosom. I pray for the Holy Spirit’s comfort for Mummy, Ibukun, Tomisin, Seun and the entire extended family. Adieu Sir.
53. FROM: OMOLADE ADEWOLE
These striking qualities readily describe who you were… a quintessential family man, a genuine lover of people and of God.
As father to my friend Ibukun, I knew you to be friendly and down to earth. A very loving Dad who welcomed his children’s friends and treated them like his own. Always lively, there was never a dull moment around you as you would tease me and other friends that came visiting, also asking about our careers and engaging us in different topics.
You were godly and loved God in every sense. The nights I spent visiting were not without us having the evening and then morning devotions where you would ensure everyone had a contribution to bible study.
You were the most health-conscious person I knew and that is no exaggeration. Always encouraging healthy diets, exercises and healthy living as a whole. I recall myself and Adenihun having to sneak in cold water on one of our visits, that was how particular you were about a healthy lifestyle.
Sir, you lived an exemplary life and it was a privilege knowing you.
Rest on Sir. You will be sorely missed.
54. FROM: ADENIHUN I OGUNSUJI
Your departure came as a rather rude shock to me. You indeed were a great father. I remember how you would always work out and play golf from my short holiday at your residence in the base.
You were such a friendly man and passionate about God.
You are my dear friend Ibukun's father, but you took even we her friends like your own daughter. I remember how you took all of us out to Yellow Chilli. You were such a wonderful man and your children are blessed.
I am certain you are resting in the bosom of our dear Lord Jesus' Christ
55. FROM: ARAFAT IFEMEJE
This news hit really hard, it sounds unreal but behold here we are to face the reality of your departure sir..... my oga , my good neigbour ,my benefactor , my mentor ,my friend .
Our relationship dates back to 1994, the daily free ride to luth ..me as a medical student and you as a resident., the gist on the way , the advice, the free lectures ,the words of wisdom .. all this I cherish sir.
And then fast forward ,my oga who would give me free health talk on healthy living, diet, exercise, the scribbled notes on sources of healthy food and even names and addresses of grocery stores...this list is endless sir. I hate to say goodbye but I remember the kind of person you were .. ever prepared even for home comming to the kingdom of God...there now you have gone, heaven indeed has gained a saint!! . Sleep on sir till we meet on the resurrection morning .
Adieu teacher of teachers!!!!
56. FROM: AIR COMMODORE ADEDOYIN S OYENUSI ,COMMANDER NIGERIAN AIRFORCE HOSPITAL , PORT HARCOURT
My dearest Oga and mentor, the news of your death came as a shock and still reverberates like an eerie echo in the wilderness.
To talk about you in the past tense is awkward and unnatural. You had so much plans for your life after service. Plans to continue to serve humanity in different capacities you’re gifted in. Plans to mentor more younger doctors and colleagues. Plans to see your family prosper and your kids achieve their fullest potentials.
You’ve been a mentor to me and my wife since our medical days. I’ve patterned my leadership styles after you and your principles of accountability and selflessness. I believe that you’re in a better place now because I know you deserve to be. I know I should have called you earlier only to hear that you’re gone the next day!!! This is my only regret, not hearing your voice for the last time before you bade farewell to this hard and unpredictable world.
The Air Force community will miss you greatly no doubt, however the legacies and the human capacities that you’ve built and left behind will forever remain testament to your greatness. Adieu gentle giant and the people’s General. Sleep in the bosom of the lord till we meet to part no more.
57. FROM:OLUWATOBI OJEWOLA
My Lagos Daddy
This one hurts badly.
My childhood memories of you are probably some of the best I have. I remember how we would watch Coming to America, Home alone, and Sounds of music, and you would always give us the background gist to every scene and explain all the jokes we probably would have missed. It’s incredible how we could make jokes and laugh with you.
I remember my days at Covenant University when we used to go for all the services in Canaanland, not just for the sake of attending but because God was your priority and you were genuinely sold out to Him. You would take us out on restaurant tours to celebrate everyone’s seemingly tiny ‘win.’ You would take us shopping and give us ‘shopping money’ no matter how many we were. I remember all the Lagos weddings we would attend, and you would ask Seun and me to dance so you could spray us mint money. You used to call me your ‘smallie’ because I was the youngest of them and because I used to cry a lot.
We spent my first few months in the UK together, and all you wanted to do was share the word of God with anyone who cared to listen. You were constantly praying, reading books, listening to messages; you were so devoted to God. You were light and everyone could see it. You were all about God and His kingdom. I remember how I taught you myself and Tomi’s dance and how you would do it every time you saw me.
One thing I know for sure is that you are resting with Abba where there is no sickness, no pain-nothing whatsoever
This is my hope, my consolation.
Your smallie loves you, and I’ll miss you deeply.
58. FROM: GROUP CAPTAIN CHUKWUMA OHANELE
TRIBUTE TO A BOSS LEADER AND MENTOR
Sir, some of us met you in the Nigerian Air Force years ago. From a distance, we admired your gentility, intellectualism and organized approach to issues. You loved acquiring and sharing knowledge with those around you. As a commander, you showed keen interest in the personal and professional development of your subordinates. You were also a ‘welfarist’ and many young officers wished to serve under you.
Then the opportunity came. You became my Commander at the Nigerian Air Force Hospital Ikeja and you introduced us to the Japanese philosophy of ‘Constant and Never Ending Improvement’. This philosophy was put to life in the entire hospital, especially the Medical Laboratory Department, which I was heading. During the ISO 15189:2012 accreditation process of the Laboratory, you provided the necessary leadership, guidance and support.
You stamped your authority on the process and provided needed motivation that enabled us in the Laboratory to overcome all obstacles. To the glory of God and your support, success was achieved on 1 December 2016. Thank you Sir for your support and mentorship. You made me a better manager and officer.
When you retired from the Service, many of us were expectant, knowing the stuff you were made of. We expected you to unleash the rich knowledge you possess of various human endevours on the wider Nigerian society. Unfortunately, this was not to be due to illness. Then, sadly you died. I am going to miss your guidance, wise counsel and mentorship. May God grant you eternal rest Air Commodore BB Okunola. Adieu Sir.
59. FROM: TOSIN AND JOY ALAWALE
Tribute for AIR COMMODORE, DR , PASTOR Babalola Okunola
We have known Babby right from our Medical Students days at University of Ibadan. We were both in the same Medical Students Hostel-Alexander Brown Hall at UCH, and attended same Christian fellowship.
It was during Nike Ojewola’s regular visits to her Sister Miss Funmi Ojewola, that Babby met her and later married her.
Pastor Babalola was a consistent God’s lover. He loved God’s word, he is an avid reader and doer of the Word. He was always looking for opportunities to teach and disciple people. He was a good Teacher of the word who lived by example; his life was exemplary.
Air Commodore Babalola Okunola, though a Soldier by training, was a kindhearted man, very humble, he had a sweet Spirit. He was always radiant and smiling. He was a good bridge builder. He was very amiable. He used his good positions to support people. He was generous.
Babby was highly principled and disciplined. He is humble and has a great sense of humour.
Babby was very hardworking, his common phrase is.. “Service is a pathway to honour”. Young adults easily found it easy to engage and gather around him to listen to his word of wisdom, encouragement and his jokes. He was a great mixer who, everyone, no matter their age , gender or social class, finds very easy to hang around with.
60. FROM: DR &DR MRS SEGUNFUNMI ALAWALE
Dr Babalola was a man of Vision. Even after his long, difficulty but impeccable service in the Airforce; still had a vision ; a vision to set up an alternative Medical Practice. To him it was a new area so he came to UK for about 3 months to learn about it .During this period;he interacted with those in the profession, he paid them to train him, before he eventually started this in Abuja. He was a man who was passionate and totally committed to a course he believed in. He was a man of excellence.
Babalola, was a great family man, he loved and invested in his family.
Relating closely with you, We know you still had so much you wanted to do, to serve God more, to serve your family and cared for them as you would like to do but limited by the service to secure our Country, Nigeria, and mingle and serve humanity as Civilian …these are some among many desires in your heart. Unfortunately, death suddenly brought your existence here on earth to an abrupt end.
Each time we replayed the whole short episode that led to your passage to glory, it all looked like a dream. But you were a fighter, you fought the good fight of faith, you held to the word of God that never fails to the end. We will use 2 Scriptures to describe your passage to glory.
“Enoch lived to please God all this time, then Enoch was not there any more. God took Enoch to be with him.” Genesis 5:24 EASY
“For me to live is Christ [His life in me], and to die is gain [the gain of the glory of eternity].”
Philippians 1:21 AMPC
Your short life was full of achievements, A Minister of the Gospel, Consultant in Otolaryngology, an Air Commodore in Nigerian Airforce. Your life was impactful, you achieved so much and you positively influenced uncountable number of people.
Babalola, It is not how long but how well.
You will never be forgotten, but continue to live on in our hearts.
Adieu , a dear friend ,beloved brother and a great man of God, Rest on!
Good night
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